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Legal Services for Child Custody Matters

Different Types Of Child Custody?

(1) Sole Custody Order

A parent granted with a sole custody order is authorised to make all important decisions for the child. This order is granted to only one parent. The court grants this order due to the reasons as follows:

  1. The couple is unable to communicate with each other in a harmonious manner.
  2. A parent renounces the child custody to another parent for the sake of the other ancillary matters.
  3. A parent had abused the child before.

(2) Joint custody order

Both parents are granted with authority to make major decisions for the child. Both parents must discuss and agree upon the same decision. This order encourages the cooperation of both parents and thus, both parents have an equal right to decisions regarding the child.

The Singapore courts have granted more joint custody orders than the sole custody orders. It shows that the Singapore courts regard the presence of both parents in the child’s life as essential to the child’s growth. Parenting is a lifetime obligation and it does not end with the marriage.

(3) Hybrid order

One parent is granted with custody he/she shall discuss with the non-custodial parent any matters regarding the child’s welfare.

(4) Split custody order

The courts grant the custody of one or more siblings to one parent, whereas custody of the other sibling(s) is granted to another parent. This order is rarely granted by the courts as the courts would normally let the siblings live together so that they can provide emotional support for each other.

Under this order, only the custodial parent can take the child overseas unless the custodial parent gives permission to the non-custodial parent or the non-custodial parent obtained a leave of the court, to take the child overseas. The child shall not be taken overseas for more than a month.

Can a father get custody of his child?
In child custody cases in Singapore, care and control are typically awarded to the mother. The courts rarely grant a full care and control order to the fathers unless:

  • the consent is obtained from the mothers; or
  • the child is at an age where he/she is capable to express clearly to the court regarding his/her wish to live with the father; or
  • the mother is abusive and/or neglectful of her child.

Otherwise, the fathers can seek for a shared care and control order. Under this order, both parents get an equal amount of time that they can spend with the child. The father shall prove that he is the main caretaker of the child before the divorce. A shared care and control order would be granted by the court if it best serves the child’s welfare.

It is improbable for the court to grant a shared care and control order if a school-going child is involved due to the inconveniences of traveling between 2 homes regularly. Also, the courts would not grant this order if the parents’ relationship is rancorous and they have different parenting styles.

For Muslim families, child custody Syariah Court matters follow similar welfare principles as stated in the child custody Singapore framework.

How do the courts determine the type of custody to award?
The Singapore courts apply a standard called the “welfare principle”. It depends on the best interests of the child. This standard is not only about financial or physical comfort, but the courts will also look into the child’s moral, religious and physical welfare as well as the child’s affection to the parent.

The courts may ask the social services or counselor to assess the child and parent and suggest a type of custody order which is suitable to them. The courts usually ask for a Social Welfare Report prepared by officers from the Ministry of Culture, Community and Youth. The officers, in preparing the report, would observe the parents’ interaction with the child. This report is confidential, it is for the judges perusal only and it shall not be revealed to the parents and/or child.

The list below shows the non-exhaustive factors that the courts may consider in deciding the type of custody order:

  • The main caregiver of the child during his/her formative years
  • The present living arrangements
  • The child’s wishes
  • The parent’s wishes
  • The child’s age
  • The parents’ financial capability
  • Presence of family support

It is important to note that the parent who has a better financial capability does not mean that he/she has a better advantage over another parent. Also, the court would not prioritize the parents’ wishes and preferences above the child’s welfare.

Our Lawyers

With over 70 years of collective family law expertise across our team, we offer strategic guidance on the most complex cases, covering divorce, custody and maintenance matters, division of matrimonial assets, annulments, deed of separation, as well as mediation and settlement support.

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Mohamed Baiross

Partner
  • English/Tamil/Malay Fluency
  • Appeals, Litigation & Mediation Expertise
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Kulvinder Kaur

Partner
  • English/Tamil/Punjabi Fluency
  • Appeals, Litigation & Mediation Expertise
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Quek Liuyong

Partner
  • English/Chinese Fluency
  • Appeals & Higher Court Expertise
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Caryn Lee

Partner
  • English/Chinese Fluency
  • Appeals & Higher Court Expertise
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Leong Zhen Yang

Associate
  • English/Chinese Fluency
  • Appeals & Higher Court Expertise
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Joleen Wong

Partner
  • English/Chinese Fluency
  • Appeals & Higher Court Expertise

Court Victories

Case 1: Shared Custody in Complex Dispute Involving Child with Special Needs

IRB Law LLP acted in a highly contested custody dispute involving an 11-year-old child with multiple neurodevelopmental disorders. Despite serious allegations between the parties, the Court delivered a landmark judgment ordering shared custody, emphasising the importance of both parents’ roles in the child’s welfare.

The Court recognised each parent’s strengths—the mother’s dedication to managing the child’s therapies and the father’s empathetic and creative approach—while also identifying areas for improvement. The mother was encouraged to acknowledge her son’s need for rest between therapies, while the father was advised to better appreciate the structured and supportive environment these therapies provided.

A structured yet flexible care arrangement was ordered, with the mother caring for the child from Saturday to Wednesday nights, and the father for the remainder of the week. Arrangements for special occasions and overseas travel are to be mutually agreed, with flexibility for either parent to request adjustments.

This outcome underscores the Court’s focus on the child’s welfare above parental conflict, and highlights the importance of cooperation, balance, and adaptability in co-parenting arrangements.

Case 2: Successful Appeal on Custody Variation

IRB Law LLP secured a successful appeal to vary child custody arrangements in favour of the mother. While the lower court had upheld the original order granting the father primary care and control, the High Court reversed this decision, prioritising the child’s welfare and expressed wishes.

The Court found that the child, now older and able to articulate her preference, was happier and more comfortable living with her mother. As a result, primary care and control was transferred to the mother, with defined access granted to the father. This outcome underscores the Court’s paramount consideration of the child’s best interests in custody disputes.

A structured yet flexible care arrangement was ordered, with the mother caring for the child from Saturday to Wednesday nights, and the father for the remainder of the week. Arrangements for special occasions and overseas travel are to be mutually agreed, with flexibility for either parent to request adjustments.

This outcome underscores the Court’s focus on the child’s welfare above parental conflict, and highlights the importance of cooperation, balance, and adaptability in co-parenting arrangements.

Testimonials

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Bethan Loh
26th April 2026

Andrew Wong and the IRB team were great in supporting my case, answering my questions and advocating for the best options for me. Quick responses with initiative, and helpful! Led to a win for me and would consult them again.

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Steven Tan
30th March 2026

4 of us, my sister and husband, my wife and I had our wills and LPAs done at IRB Law LLP. Mr Andrew Wong of IRB helped us in drafting our Wills and LPAs. He explained to us clearly about the wills and LPAs and patiently guided us through the process of drafting our wills. He answered her queries clearly and we had a much better understanding of wills and LPAs. We would like to say a thank you. I would also like to give a thumbs up to Andrew and Amelia during the initial queries and arrangements to fix the appointment today. They answered my queries quickly and promptly which helped me decide to use IRB Law.

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Jason Tan
25th March 2026

We would like to thanks Mr Andrew Wong and Ms Precelia for their strong support and professionalism in giving us sound advice in this entire journey.

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Siang Chee Keong
12th March 2026

We hired lawyer, Mr Andrew to settle my dad documents of asset. Process was fast and helpful with him. Thank you very much.

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Hasnah Abdullah
16th January 2026

At that time when we were feeling extremely helpless, Mr Mohamed Baiross was willing to help and has given his views on our issue. I am incredibly grateful to Mr. Mohamed Baiross and his team at IRB Law Firm, particularly Ms. Sharifah Nabilah, for their outstanding representation in our case. Her efficiency, dedication, and professionalism were evident throughout the process. Ms. Sharifah's confidence and assurance in court during cross-examination were impressive, and her ownership of the case led to a successful outcome. I highly recommend IRB Law Firm and Ms. Sharifah Nabilah for their exceptional legal services.

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jenny chew
6th January 2026

I am truly grateful to this legal team for their professionalism, dedication, and genuine care throughout my case. Going through legal matters after a divorce is never easy—emotionally or mentally—but this team made the entire process much more manageable and reassuring. Mr. Hashim was the first person who came into contact with me. He patiently guided me through the initial process, explained the steps clearly, and provided reassurance when I felt lost and overwhelmed. His guidance gave me clarity and confidence during a very difficult period. Mr. Andrew assisted me extensively throughout the case. He was extremely patient and took the time to explain every detail clearly and thoroughly. Most importantly, he fought all the way for my best interests and benefits, and the outcome was great for me. I am truly grateful to have had him and the team standing by me throughout this journey. I would also like to sincerely thank Ms. Nabilah and Ms. Waheedah, who were always friendly, helpful, and responsive. Their support and warm attitude made the entire process much less stressful and helped me feel supported every step of the way. The outcome was great for me, and I am deeply grateful to have had this team with me during such a challenging time. I would highly recommend them to anyone seeking reliable, compassionate, and professional legal support.

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Yen Goh
19th December 2025

IRB law team lawyers professional and helpful, good job, thanks Andrew for help so professional.👍👍👍

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Kevin Chan
5th December 2025

Mr Baiross, Crystal, and the team are very professional and friendly. Mr Baiross gives excellent advise and is prompt in his replies. Crystal is helpful and attentive when it came to executing the agreement. Overall the team is patient and will help clarify any questions and concerns you have.

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Prasanna George
14th November 2025

Our family in India went through the most terrifying phase of our lives when my husband was suddenly accused in Singapore and kept in custody for over three long months. We are in India and those days were filled with fear, sleepless nights, and constant worry about what awaited him. In that unbearable period, Sir, Mr. Baiross, came into our lives as a true blessing. He brought confidence, clarity, and hope at a time when we had none. Mr. Baiross sir handled the case with exceptional legal expertise, deep compassion, and unwavering commitment. He listened to every detail, understood our pain, and guided us at every step with patience and care. His dedication and the support of his entire team gave us the strength to move forward. Because of Mr. Baiross sir and his team, my husband returned home safely and our family finally regained peace after months of turmoil. We will remain forever grateful to him and his dedicated team for standing by us and fighting for justice during the darkest chapter of our lives.

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JB Tan
14th November 2025

Grateful to have worked with Mr Andrew Wong and achieved a positive outcome. He was professional, knowledgeable, patient, prompt, supportive, and helpful in establishing clarity with every step of the way. Will recommend!

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Edwin Yeoh
12th November 2025

Deed poll was done smoothly and fast. The staff helped me to settle all of the necessary documents needed for it to be executed. Mr Baiross was the witnessing lawyer during the signature of the deed poll. Everything was done quickly and I'm happy to get my name updated.

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Monika Sehgal
10th November 2025

To the team at IRB Law, and especially to Kulvinder Kaur, Partner IRB Law LLP I am writing this note to express my deepest and most sincere gratitude for the outstanding legal support and personal guidance I received during one of the most challenging periods of my life. When I was feeling lost and vulnerable navigating my divorce and PPO case, I am so glad I found your firm. From the very beginning, Kulvin, your professionalism and compassion stood out. The free initial consultation you provided was a testament to your commitment to helping people, and after meeting several other senior lawyers, I knew that choosing you was the right decision. I am so happy I trusted my instincts. Kulvin, you are a truly exceptional lawyer. As a senior lawyer, your experience was evident in every step you took. You didn't just represent me; you guided me. You were there for me throughout the entire process, patiently explaining what to expect and meticulously preparing me for every hearing. Your guidance gave me the strength and confidence I needed to keep going. I honestly believe that if you had not been by my side, I would not have been able to achieve such a successful outcome in both my divorce and PPO case. Your expertise was the key to winning, but it was your support that kept me standing. I cannot thank you enough. I highly recommend Kulvin and IRB Law to anyone who finds themselves in a similar difficult situation and needs someone to not only represent them with excellence but also to guide and support them with genuine care. Thank you for everything. With deepest appreciation, Kind Regards Monika Bakshi

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Ramez
3rd November 2025

I had contacted IRB Law Mountbatten for Grant of Probate application. Mr Andrew Wong was assigned to me. All matters were clearly explained to me. I was able to make appointments convenient to me. The whole process was quick and smooth. Mr Andrew Wong and his team conducted themselves professionally. I would certainly engage their services again should the need arise.

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James Yeoh
30th October 2025

My sincere thanks to Mr Baiross for genuinely listening to my issue and willing to provide honest feedback and clarification

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Anita Ibrahim
24th October 2025

I had a great experience having IRB Law to assist my sons in the inheritance matters . Mr Baiross and the teams assist me throughout the journey til everything goes smoothly . Mr Fadil too was very patient in addressing my concerns . He help me with all the doubts and explain well . Thank you 🙏

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FAQs

What is a custody lawyer?
A custody lawyer is a type of family lawyer who specializes in cases related to child custody. These lawyers provide guidance and representation during legal proceedings involving the determination of parental rights.
How does child custody work in Singapore?
In Singapore, child custody refers to the right to make major decisions for the child, such as those concerning education, religion, and health matters. It is often granted to both parents (joint custody) even after a divorce. However, the court may grant sole custody if it is in the best interests of the child.
What factors does the court consider in custody proceedings in Singapore?
The court considers various factors including the child’s wishes, the mental and physical health of all parties involved, the child’s relationships with each parent, each parent’s ability to provide for the child’s needs, and any history of family violence or abuse.
How long do custody proceedings take in Singapore?
The duration of custody proceedings in Singapore varies depending on the complexity of the case, the degree of cooperation between the parties, and other factors. On average, it can take several months to over a year.
What is the difference between custody and care and control in Singapore?
While custody refers to the right to make significant decisions for the child, care and control refers to the daily physical care of the child. The parent with care and control is responsible for the child’s daily routines and needs.
Can a father get custody in Singapore?
Yes, fathers can get custody in Singapore. The court makes its decision based on the child’s best interests, not the parent’s gender.
What does a Singapore custody lawyer do?
A custody lawyer in Singapore can guide you through the legal process, represent you in court, negotiate with the other party on your behalf, and help ensure your rights and interests are protected.
What is joint custody?
Joint custody is where both parents share the right to make major decisions concerning their child, even though they are no longer married or cohabiting. It encourages both parents to remain involved in the child’s life.
Can custody orders be changed in Singapore?
Yes, custody orders can be modified if there has been a significant change in circumstances, and the change is in the best interests of the child.
How can I find the best custody lawyer in Singapore?
You can search online, seek referrals from friends or family, or use directories of legal professionals. Look for a lawyer who specializes in family law and has a strong track record in custody cases.
What are the costs of hiring a custody lawyer in Singapore?
Costs can vary widely depending on the complexity of the case, the lawyer’s experience, and the length of the proceedings. It’s advisable to discuss fees upfront during your initial consultation with a lawyer.
What is the role of the Child Representative in Singapore custody cases?
A Child Representative is appointed to represent the child’s interests in contentious custody disputes. They help ensure that the child’s views and preferences are considered during the proceedings.
How is child visitation determined in Singapore?
Visitation rights, also known as access, are usually granted to the parent who does not have care and control of the child. The court determines the frequency and duration of visits.
How can a custody lawyer help in a case of international child abduction?
A custody lawyer can help navigate the complex international laws and treaties related to child abduction, represent you in legal proceedings, and work with international authorities to return the child safely.
What happens if there is a breach of a custody order in Singapore?
A breach of a custody order is a serious matter. If this occurs, the court can enforce the order and penalize the offending party.
How is child support determined in Singapore?
Child support is determined based on the child’s needs and the financial abilities of the parents. The court ensures that both parents contribute to the financial support of the child.
What happens in cases of alleged child abuse during custody proceedings?
Allegations of child abuse are taken very seriously. If such allegations arise during custody proceedings, the court may order investigations or assessments to ensure the child’s safety.
Can I represent myself in a custody case in Singapore?
Yes, you can choose to represent yourself. However, custody proceedings can be complex and emotionally challenging. Having a lawyer can help ensure your interests and rights are adequately represented.
How confidential are custody proceedings in Singapore?
Family proceedings, including custody cases, are usually confidential. The identities of the parties involved are often protected, especially when children are involved.
Do grandparents have any rights in custody proceedings in Singapore?
While grandparents don’t have legal rights in custody cases, their roles and relationships with the child may be considered during custody proceedings, especially if they have been heavily involved in the child’s upbringing.

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Please note that timelines vary based on court schedules and the complexity of each case. While emergency filings may be submitted, acceptance is subject to judicial discretion and is not guaranteed.. The outcome of each case depends on each case’s circumstances.