When you and your spouse consider living separate lives, a Deed of Separation can help bring clarity to your relationship while you are still married and set a path to an amicable divorce. IRB Law deed of separation lawyers in Singapore assist spouses in drafting legally sound and enforceable deeds of separation that reflect their best interests and protect their rights as they begin living apart.
What Is a Deed of Separation?
A deed of separation is a private, voluntary agreement between the spouses who decide to separate either without or before filing for divorce. While the deed of separation isn’t a court document and does not commence the divorce, it helps spouses define the rules related to finances, property, and child сustody when they start living separate lives.
As an official document, the deed of separation needs to be properly executed in written form and signed by both spouses. Similar to a settlement agreement, the rights and obligations defined by a deed of separation can be enforced in court.
What Should Be Covered in a Deed of Separation?
Commonly, the spouses considering separation seek to clarify the following matters as part of their Deed of Separation:
- Residential Arrangements: In the text of the deed, the spouses can agree on where they will live during separation, for example, who will live in the matrimonial home or who stays where if the couple stays in the same home while separated.
- Custody, Care, and Control of the Children: By making the deed of separation, the spouses can reach an agreement on their future roles and responsibilities towards their children once the couple becomes separated.
- Access Rights to Children for the Other Spouse: Drafting a deed of separation helps define access rights to children to the spouse who does not have custody, care, and control.
- Maintenance for Wife and/or Children: The spouses can agree on maintenance for wife and/or children while living separately.
- Division of Matrimonial Assets in Case of Divorce: Entering into the Deed of Separation before the divorce can help achieve an agreement on the division of matrimonial assets, avoid contested divorce, speed up the divorce process and reduce costs.
- Setting a Framework for Divorce: The spouses wishing to separate can also include provisions related to commencing a divorce, including the grounds for initiating divorce proceedings, the timeline, sharing the costs and legal fees, and other aspects.
Deed of Separation vs Divorce
| Deed of Separation | Divorce |
|---|---|
| A deed of separation is a private document made between the spouses | A Certificate of Divorce is issued by the court after the divorce |
| Signing a deed of separation does not start or result in divorce | A Certificate of Divorce ends the marriage |
| After a deed of separation, the spouses remain legally married | After a divorce, the ex-spouses change their legal status to divorcees |
| Entering into a deed of separation does not allow the spouses to remarry another person | The divorced spouses can remarry another person |
| A deed of separation can be made at any moment without an obligatory waiting time | You need to wait at least 3 years from the date of solemnisation to file for divorce, with only a few exceptions |
| Drafting the deed of separation does not require any grounds except the agreement by both spouses | The primary grounds for divorce are the irretrievable breakdown of the marriage |
Key Considerations for Deed of Separation
Spouses can consider separation without or before divorce for multiple reasons, depending on their individual situation. Some spouses may not have made a final decision about divorce yet, but would prefer to live separately and seek a written agreement to set rules for living apart. Other couples may wish to use the deed of separation to agree upon ancillary matters, such as division of property, maintenance and child custody, before divorce to avoid contested proceedings.
Most often, other common considerations for making a deed of separation also include:
- Setting separation rules for spouses married less than 3 years: By entering into a deed of separation, the spouses can start separate lives without having to wait three years after solemnisation to become eligible for divorce.
- Establishing a proof of separation for future divorce: Spouses can use the deed of separation as documentary evidence of living separately to facilitate future divorce proceedings.
- Keeping the marriage legally valid while living separately: Some couples prefer separation to divorce for other reasons, for example, during their Minimum Occupancy Period (MOP) to keep their HDB flat.
- Facilitating reconciliation: The spouses may choose to terminate the deed at any time to reconcile if they no longer wish to remain separated.
- Offering flexibility in defining the terms of separation: A deed of separation is a private agreement that can be tailored to the couple’s unique circumstances and dynamics without court intervention.
Why Hire a Deed of Separation Lawyer?
While a deed of separation is a private document between the spouses, it’s essential to consult an experienced family lawyer to ensure that it meets all legal requirements and is fully enforceable. Also, the deed of separation can only provide clarity and help manage the rights and obligations of the spouses if it is professionally drafted to accurately reflect their exact intentions.
Importantly, each spouse should consult an independent deed of separation lawyer before signing to ensure they fully understand their rights. Having independent legal advice can also safeguard against the court setting the deed of separation aside on the grounds that it created an unfair disadvantage for one of the spouses.
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At that time when we were feeling extremely helpless, Mr Mohamed Baiross was willing to help and has given his views on our issue. I am incredibly grateful to Mr. Mohamed Baiross and his team at IRB Law Firm, particularly Ms. Sharifah Nabilah, for their outstanding representation in our case. Her efficiency, dedication, and professionalism were evident throughout the process. Ms. Sharifah's confidence and assurance in court during cross-examination were impressive, and her ownership of the case led to a successful outcome. I highly recommend IRB Law Firm and Ms. Sharifah Nabilah for their exceptional legal services.
Mr Baiross, Crystal, and the team are very professional and friendly. Mr Baiross gives excellent advise and is prompt in his replies. Crystal is helpful and attentive when it came to executing the agreement. Overall the team is patient and will help clarify any questions and concerns you have.
Our family in India went through the most terrifying phase of our lives when my husband was suddenly accused in Singapore and kept in custody for over three long months. We are in India and those days were filled with fear, sleepless nights, and constant worry about what awaited him. In that unbearable period, Sir, Mr. Baiross, came into our lives as a true blessing. He brought confidence, clarity, and hope at a time when we had none. Mr. Baiross sir handled the case with exceptional legal expertise, deep compassion, and unwavering commitment. He listened to every detail, understood our pain, and guided us at every step with patience and care. His dedication and the support of his entire team gave us the strength to move forward. Because of Mr. Baiross sir and his team, my husband returned home safely and our family finally regained peace after months of turmoil. We will remain forever grateful to him and his dedicated team for standing by us and fighting for justice during the darkest chapter of our lives.
Deed poll was done smoothly and fast. The staff helped me to settle all of the necessary documents needed for it to be executed. Mr Baiross was the witnessing lawyer during the signature of the deed poll. Everything was done quickly and I'm happy to get my name updated.
My sincere thanks to Mr Baiross for genuinely listening to my issue and willing to provide honest feedback and clarification
I had a great experience having IRB Law to assist my sons in the inheritance matters . Mr Baiross and the teams assist me throughout the journey til everything goes smoothly . Mr Fadil too was very patient in addressing my concerns . He help me with all the doubts and explain well . Thank you 🙏
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Do I need a deed of separation?
What is the cost of drafting a deed of separation?
The cost of drafting a deed of separation depends on how complex your legal situation is and the scope of assets and properties involved. At IRB Law, we offer clear, transparent fees for drafting a deed of separation in Singapore. Please don’t hesitate to contact our deed of separation lawyers for a free consultation and a quote.
Do I need to register a deed of separation?
Do I need to live in another residence after a deed of separation?
Can I remarry after a deed of separation?
What to do if my spouse breaks the deed of separation?
Can the court waive the deed of separation?
For example, if one of the spouses was pressured into signing a deed of separation, did not have independent advice before signing, or did not receive full disclosure of financial assets and essential details, the court can hold the deed as unconscionable.
What is the difference between a deed of separation and judicial separation?
The process to apply for judicial separation is similar to that of divorce, except that you and your spouse remain legally married. Since it can take almost as much time and effort to apply for judicial separation as to apply for divorce, some spouses may consider a deed of separation as a preferred alternative to judicial separation and file for divorce at a later stage.
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Mr Baiross, Crystal, and the team are very professional and friendly. Mr Baiross gives excellent advise and is prompt in his replies. Crystal is helpful and attentive when it came to executing the agreement. Overall the team is patient and will help clarify any questions and concerns you have.
Our family in India went through the most terrifying phase of our lives when my husband was suddenly accused in Singapore and kept in custody for over three long months. We are in India and those days were filled with fear, sleepless nights, and constant worry about what awaited him. In that unbearable period, Sir, Mr. Baiross, came into our lives as a true blessing. He brought confidence, clarity, and hope at a time when we had none. Mr. Baiross sir handled the case with exceptional legal expertise, deep compassion, and unwavering commitment. He listened to every detail, understood our pain, and guided us at every step with patience and care. His dedication and the support of his entire team gave us the strength to move forward. Because of Mr. Baiross sir and his team, my husband returned home safely and our family finally regained peace after months of turmoil. We will remain forever grateful to him and his dedicated team for standing by us and fighting for justice during the darkest chapter of our lives.
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Deed poll was done smoothly and fast. The staff helped me to settle all of the necessary documents needed for it to be executed. Mr Baiross was the witnessing lawyer during the signature of the deed poll. Everything was done quickly and I'm happy to get my name updated.
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My sincere thanks to Mr Baiross for genuinely listening to my issue and willing to provide honest feedback and clarification
I had a great experience having IRB Law to assist my sons in the inheritance matters . Mr Baiross and the teams assist me throughout the journey til everything goes smoothly . Mr Fadil too was very patient in addressing my concerns . He help me with all the doubts and explain well . Thank you 🙏