Deed of Separation Lawyers in Singapore

When you and your spouse consider living separate lives, a Deed of Separation can help bring clarity to your relationship while you are still married and set a path to an amicable divorce. IRB Law deed of separation lawyers in Singapore assist spouses in drafting legally sound and enforceable deeds of separation that reflect their best interests and protect their rights as they begin living apart.

What Is a Deed of Separation?

A deed of separation is a private, voluntary agreement between the spouses who decide to separate either without or before filing for divorce. While the deed of separation isn’t a court document and does not commence the divorce, it helps spouses define the rules related to finances, property, and child сustody when they start living separate lives.

As an official document, the deed of separation needs to be properly executed in written form and signed by both spouses. Similar to a settlement agreement, the rights and obligations defined by a deed of separation can be enforced in court.

What Should Be Covered in a Deed of Separation?

Commonly, the spouses considering separation seek to clarify the following matters as part of their Deed of Separation:

  • Residential Arrangements: In the text of the deed, the spouses can agree on where they will live during separation, for example, who will live in the matrimonial home or who stays where if the couple stays in the same home while separated.
  • Custody, Care, and Control of the Children: By making the deed of separation, the spouses can reach an agreement on their future roles and responsibilities towards their children once the couple becomes separated.
  • Access Rights to Children for the Other Spouse: Drafting a deed of separation helps define access rights to children to the spouse who does not have custody, care, and control.
  • Maintenance for Wife and/or Children: The spouses can agree on maintenance for wife and/or children while living separately.
  • Division of Matrimonial Assets in Case of Divorce: Entering into the Deed of Separation before the divorce can help achieve an agreement on the division of matrimonial assets, avoid contested divorce, speed up the divorce process and reduce costs.
  • Setting a Framework for Divorce: The spouses wishing to separate can also include provisions related to commencing a divorce, including the grounds for initiating divorce proceedings, the timeline, sharing the costs and legal fees, and other aspects.

Deed of Separation vs Divorce

Deed of Separation Divorce
A deed of separation is a private document made between the spouses A Certificate of Divorce is issued by the court after the divorce
Signing a deed of separation does not start or result in divorce A Certificate of Divorce ends the marriage
After a deed of separation, the spouses remain legally married After a divorce, the ex-spouses change their legal status to divorcees
Entering into a deed of separation does not allow the spouses to remarry another person The divorced spouses can remarry another person
A deed of separation can be made at any moment without an obligatory waiting time You need to wait at least 3 years from the date of solemnisation to file for divorce, with only a few exceptions
Drafting the deed of separation does not require any grounds except the agreement by both spouses The primary grounds for divorce are the irretrievable breakdown of the marriage

Key Considerations for Deed of Separation

Spouses can consider separation without or before divorce for multiple reasons, depending on their individual situation. Some spouses may not have made a final decision about divorce yet, but would prefer to live separately and seek a written agreement to set rules for living apart. Other couples may wish to use the deed of separation to agree upon ancillary matters, such as division of property, maintenance and child custody, before divorce to avoid contested proceedings.

Most often, other common considerations for making a deed of separation also include:

  • Setting separation rules for spouses married less than 3 years: By entering into a deed of separation, the spouses can start separate lives without having to wait three years after solemnisation to become eligible for divorce.
  • Establishing a proof of separation for future divorce: Spouses can use the deed of separation as documentary evidence of living separately to facilitate future divorce proceedings.
  • Keeping the marriage legally valid while living separately: Some couples prefer separation to divorce for other reasons, for example, during their Minimum Occupancy Period (MOP) to keep their HDB flat.
  • Facilitating reconciliation: The spouses may choose to terminate the deed at any time to reconcile if they no longer wish to remain separated.
  • Offering flexibility in defining the terms of separation: A deed of separation is a private agreement that can be tailored to the couple’s unique circumstances and dynamics without court intervention.

Why Hire a Deed of Separation Lawyer?

While a deed of separation is a private document between the spouses, it’s essential to consult an experienced family lawyer to ensure that it meets all legal requirements and is fully enforceable. Also, the deed of separation can only provide clarity and help manage the rights and obligations of the spouses if it is professionally drafted to accurately reflect their exact intentions.

Importantly, each spouse should consult an independent deed of separation lawyer before signing to ensure they fully understand their rights. Having independent legal advice can also safeguard against the court setting the deed of separation aside on the grounds that it created an unfair disadvantage for one of the spouses.

Why Choose IRB Law Deed of Separation Lawyers in Singapore?

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Caryn Lee

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Caryn graduated from the University of Bristol (UK) with a Bachelor of Laws (Honours) Degree in 2016. Caryn was subsequently admitted to the roll of Advocate and Solicitors of the Supreme Court of Singapore in 2018.

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Kulvinder Kaur is a prominent commercial and corporate lawyer and an expert in litigation matters. Kaur is well-known in all courts of Singapore for strong legal representation in the most complex cases across multiple practice areas.

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Chia Ming Yun graduated from the University of Western Australia in 2016 with a double degree in Bachelor of Laws and Bachelor of Commerce. With her accounting background, she is meticulous and analytical.

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With an unquenchable thirst for justice and unyielding commitment to uphold the law and get the best outcome for his clients, Mr. Dzuleqhmal has carved a remarkable path through the legal landscape, leaving an indelible mark on the profession. With years of dedicated practice in litigation, Mr. Dzuleqhmal has evolved into a revered authority in this field. His strategic insights, coupled with an unwavering dedication to clients, have been instrumental in securing victories and favorable outcomes.

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Do I need a deed of separation?
If you and your spouse decide to live separately, having a deed of separation can help you clarify financial matters, property issues, and child custody while you live apart. By having a deed of separation in place, you and your spouse can avoid conflicts and facilitate the path to an amicable divorce. If you eventually file for divorce, you can provide the deed of separation to the court as proof that you lived separately from your spouse and to establish the duration of separation, if required for divorce proceedings.
What is the cost of drafting a deed of separation?

The cost of drafting a deed of separation depends on how complex your legal situation is and the scope of assets and properties involved. At IRB Law, we offer clear, transparent fees for drafting a deed of separation in Singapore. Please don’t hesitate to contact our deed of separation lawyers for a free consultation and a quote.

Do I need to register a deed of separation?
Generally, you are not required to register a deed of separation in Singapore for it to be enforceable. At the same time, you have the option of registering your deed of separation with the Registry of Deeds. That said, you should register your deed of separation if it regulates the title to your property if you intend to use the deed in court as evidence of your interest in the title.
Do I need to live in another residence after a deed of separation?
When you have a legal separation in Singapore, you are not legally required to live in another residence apart from your spouse while separated. If you prefer to stay in your matrimonial home, you can continue living in the same residence or apartment while separated, provided you sleep in different rooms, live separate lives, and do not maintain a spousal relationship.
Can I remarry after a deed of separation?
During the period of separation, you remain legally married to your spouse. Accordingly, you cannot marry someone else until you are officially divorced and have received the Certificate of Divorce.
What to do if my spouse breaks the deed of separation?
The deed of separation in Singapore is essentially a written agreement between you and your spouse. Similar to other civil agreements, you can sue your spouse for violating the rules set in the deed of separation, for example, those related to access to children, not leaving the matrimonial house if this was the agreement, or other terms of the deed. In addition to court sanctions for breaking the terms of the deed of separation, the party at fault can face other negative consequences during the divorce procedure.
Can the court waive the deed of separation?
Generally, the court can set aside or waive the deed of separation if it considers that it includes unconscionable or unfair terms to the disadvantage of one spouse over the other.

For example, if one of the spouses was pressured into signing a deed of separation, did not have independent advice before signing, or did not receive full disclosure of financial assets and essential details, the court can hold the deed as unconscionable.

What is the difference between a deed of separation and judicial separation?
A deed of separation in Singapore is a private agreement made between you and your spouse. Meanwhile, a judicial separation is a formal court process where you or your spouse applies to the court to be legally recognised as living apart without dissolving your marriage.

The process to apply for judicial separation is similar to that of divorce, except that you and your spouse remain legally married. Since it can take almost as much time and effort to apply for judicial separation as to apply for divorce, some spouses may consider a deed of separation as a preferred alternative to judicial separation and file for divorce at a later stage.

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